Create Healing Experiences
In the depth of early grief, you might think that it would be ‘easier’ to just take care of things as simply – and as quickly –as possible. But easier – especially in this circumstance – simply isn’t better. You must set the stage for the future by giving your family and friends the opportunity to start the healing process.
Funeral Services in Riverside
Gathering with friends and family gives everyone the opportunity to share memories, express emotions, and find comforting support. Whether you choose burial or cremation; whether you select a formal funeral or a more relaxed memorial service, the need for acknowledgment of the loss with family and friends is ever present.
We can help you create a unique meaningful ceremony to express the genuine individuality of your loved one. You may feel a traditional funeral service, with the body present, is the best for your family. Traditional funeral services are usually planned within a few days of death, and unfortunately sometimes in great haste.
Or, you may choose to have a memorial service, where the body is not present. This is often the best option for those families who are scattered, and need time to come together, because they can be delayed as long as you want. In not feeling pressured to have a service right away, there is time for thoughtful planning.
We offer families a beautiful setting in which to come together to honor your loved one. But, you may certainly choose to celebrate their life in a more unique setting. No matter where you decide to gather together, such a service will make a difference in the lives of all who attend.
If burial has been selected, usually any ceremonies we design revolve around the casket being present. You can choose to follow tradition, with a viewing, and then a funeral service in a church or memorial chapel. Or you could decide to have a more relaxed service, even in your family home.
Let’s just say this: there is no ‘hard and fast’ formula for honoring your loved one when burial has been selected. We’re here to listen to your concerns, share our experience, and help you to arrive at the perfect way to gather together before your loved one's interment in the cemetery of your choice.
The visitation allows the family an opportunity to view the deceased. It gives everyone the opportunity to see the reality of death and admit to its presence. This is the first step to accepting death and beginning the healing process.
The visitation is also a time when the community is invited to share experiences about the deceased. This part of the ritual is so crucial to both the family and the community because it facilitates discussions about many of the things that are often swept under the rug. In this way, we do not experience this crisis alone. Instead, we celebrate the life of our loved one with the community. The visitation rite also provides a socially acceptable time to grieve and express very strong emotions; it is truly a healing time for the living.